Hi, new here and just need to know i am not alone...
Been married 26 years, H a very controlling man, sulking when doesnt get own way/not enough attention. He says i do things just to annoy him or make him angry.
We have no friends because he doesnt like entertaining, just sits in front of tv and this includes all our 3 (now nearly grownup) childrens birthday parties.
He never tells our children how well they have done something, doesnt even know where our middle son lives or what his phone number is.
He has no interest in any of them, never speaks to them unless they contact him first.
All he does is work and is obsessed by money and people that earn a lot of money and then sulks because i am taking our youngest DC out because its half term..and he feels left out..
We have moved house to the place of his dreams, I thought maybe if we had a new start things would be better for us, but because it has moved us away from what little life of my own that i had and all our youngest DC friends it has made it all a 1000 times worse. And I now see how things really are.
I do not love or respect this man, much of the time i do not even believe he is human because of the little humanity he shows to any one.
The way he has treated our children over the years has left me numb, and any suggestion to him that he could do things a little different just results in heavy silences and 'i can never do anything right, you always take their sides' rants.
So I am leaving him. Why do I feel so guilty?
Please excuse this if it all a ramble, hard to put many years of misery in a post so that it doesnt sound like wingeing..
Thanks
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I've come to the end of my road with H
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catkin14 · 19/02/2013 22:47
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