I keep having to bite my tongue. Friend has DP which many of her family disapprove of. They actively encourage her to end the relationship.
I don't blame them. Normally I think don't interfere with others relationships, but on this occasion I think he is awful and she is wasting her life on him.
So when she tells me how her family hate him, or yet another example of why he is crap and upset her and generally just nod and say nothing. Im afraid she will cut me off and have no one to talk too if I say what I really think.
Now she phones this morning to say they are getting married. My heart sank. I just know its wrong. She has been through so much already I know this is another disaster.
I really want to say something but it will ruin the friendship wont it?
Im sure he will be pleased as he seems determined to isolate her anyway.
I don't know how much longer I can bite my tongue.
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Telling your friend you think they are making a massive mistake by marrying someone is probably at stupid idea isn't it?
Worry4friend · 18/02/2013 17:03
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