Last year I was dumped by DP. Not nice but not the end of the world. We'd been together a few years and the relationship had run its course so that was that. Theres been no contact which seems to suit both of us and I feel I'm well rid of him.
Problem for me is that I've worked out that there may be an OW, but as we're finished I suppose she's his DP. She's someone who shares a sporting interest with him, same club etc. He'd mentioned her in passing a while back and I'd seen a photo of her from the club(she looks like a more well preserved me).
I happened to find out by stalking her FB page that she was separated. Since then I've (in my head) got her and XDP in a relationship. There's abolutely no evidence of this but it seems possible and I've become immaturely jealous of her. I'm not sticking pins in plastercine dolls or playing Adele songs incessantly, but its taking up a lot of head space when I could be concentrating on something beter . Talk some sense into me, please. I'm not normally mad as a fish prone to such nonsense, so whats all this about?
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Obsessing about XDPs new DP, who may be a figment of my imagination
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MaudWebster · 16/02/2013 20:29
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