Dp has emailed me a reservation he made for me for a night away, by myself. I really don't want to go. The timing just doesn't suit.
I am actually quite upset as he did this before and I asked him not to. Mainly due to the fact that he works long hours and is busy with sports etc and I am expected to fit my free time in around what suits him. I am a sahm and have very little time to myself.
If we are going to spend this much money I would like to have a say in where I go and when.
The train and hotel are last minute, non refundable.
I feel like I have no control over my own life at all.
If he was trying to something nice he should have paid attention to what we have discussed before.
Maybe I sound ungrateful and didn't explain well but it is because he has gone and done something I clearly asked him not to and now I'll have to go as I can't waste all that money.
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What do I say to Dp?
Onceupon · 15/02/2013 19:07
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