We basically had a crap day in the cold wrestling with the kids, followed (at the end of the day) by tea and Nanny McPhee.
He mentioned sex earlier and I said "prob not, I just can't feel sexy after a day of arguing with a 2yr old and 5yr old all day".
So he brings it up again just now by asking me to go and have a bath, and I said 'no thanks, I know the subtext, just don't fancy sex tonight'. So now he's throwing washing up around the kitchen furiously in a noisy fury.
Being able to say no to sex when you just don't want to is just how it bloody IS surely?
We have sex 1-2 times per week, work a 60hr week (both of us) and have children aged 2 & 5.
BTW He only wants sex if we both shower, I put new full make-up on and sexy underwear, high heels, scent etc.
I just can't be bothered tonight.
How do I handle the big strop ?
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DH is sulking because I don't fancy sex tonight...
AuntLucyInPeru · 09/02/2013 20:11
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