My lovely DP is currently living with me in my house. When he first moved in he said he intended living with my and my children for a few months and then hopefully buying a house for us all to live in. I was dubious about this as it's something he's said three times before and then gone back on (saying I was rushing things) so when he said it this time I rubbished it and more or less said "yep, whatever".
So since he's been here we've both been struck down by illnesses, being rather grumpy with the world and had my wayward 12 year old son to deal with. Things have not been great. We rarely even have sex and considering we're still in the first year of our relationship is rather upsetting really.
Last night we talked and he reassured me that everything was fine, it was just a rough few weeks for us for various reasons but it was no reflection on our relationship.
What I'm thinking is, I should be entitled to some certainty/insight about our future. No good just rubbishing his ideas and plodding along in limbo in my head, I need to know, I feel we need some common goal.
So my question is, if I directly ask him if he still intends on us moving with him when he buys a house in a few months time, that isn't pushy is it?? I do deserve to know, right?
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It's not "pushy" to want to discuss and have some certainty about the future is it??
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FireTailGobby · 06/02/2013 08:17
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