My DPs brother and girlfriend had a child 6 months ago and are living together. They have always had a very up and down relationship with explosive arguments. They are in their early twenties And I believe this to be the first very serious relationship for both of them.
Yesterday when visiting SIL she had bruises all down her arms and legs, he has previously said that she has gone for him and he just tries to restrain her. BUT from what I can ascertain from her he has been violent with her on many occasions. She has health issues which mean that being overly stressed is ery dangerous for her.
My dilemma I guess is do I stay out of it do I say something to him do I tell my MIL who would tear shreds off him or do I just let her know I am here. I have said to her if she needs anything I am here and we are not the best of friends but no one deserves that sort of treatment. She has said he is on his last chance and if anything further happens it is over between them and he is going to seek help for his temper. However something is telling me that this is going to be going on for a while and it is killing my conscience when I think of their child and everything she is going through.
I have spoken to my DP and he has had serious words with his brother but I just don't feel it is enough. I really just don't know what to do or if I should just keep out of it. I know she will not thank me for interfering but I would rather that than something ends up happening to her.
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Allinatwist · 05/02/2013 14:59
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