I am really struggling as he has been crying and pleading with me not to give up on him. Its been 15 years of abuse, so I do know he's not going to change unless he gets counselling or..something. He has only recently started admitting it's his fault when he realised I was serious about ending it. I just can't face any more of the same shocking behaviour; but I feel utterly dreadful about hurting him. I do still love the non abusive side of him. I have read the Lundy Bancroft book so I do know the score. I am also having counselling to sort my head out but I don't think its helping. We have been living separately for the last 3ish years but this is due to other circumstances. Can anyone offer some support or tell me to grow some? Thanks
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