Hi all - wondered if anyone could offer some advice or words of wisdom on how I can move forward with my life.
I split from EXP last October. He had a new partner by November. He didn't tell me about this new relationship - left it for me to stumble accross on FB. He introduced our DS to this woman before I even knew about her.
I am really really trying to keep myself going at the moment. I do not want to be with EXP, although I am still very fond of him. He has technically done nothing wrong (he could have handled the situation better but he didn't and there's nothing elither of us can do to change that). But I have found it really hard to accept that he could just replace me and his family that easily. It just feels like our whole past has been wiped away and meant nothing.
And I have to grin and bear it because he is still in my life due to DS. I can't deny him access because that would be totally wrong. I still have to be poilte and civil even though I just want to shut him out of my life and start afresh.
It feels like everytime I am pulling myself together I find out something new and it just knocks me down again. Is the only answer to give it time?
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JustFoldingStars · 25/01/2013 14:25
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