My mum has been an alcoholic for some years now, she's gone through stages of doing really well and others of doing terribly. She's also extremely toxic, she tells lies or her own pleasure. She recently told me she had cancer, she tells me she's fallen down the stairs and broken bones etc, they were all lies. She's done loads more horrible things but it wold be very long and boring to go in to it all.
I feel bad for her cos she's obviously got MH problems but she won't help herself.
Yesterday she came to meet me and she was steaming drunk at 10 am I was mortified as we met in a v public place with my young son there. obviously she wouldn't admit it, she never does. Anyway I feel like this is the last straw for me, I can't be done with lies anymore and I want her out my life. The guilt I feel over feeling like this is horrendous though! She doesn't really have anyone else to look after her. She has family but they're miles away, her few friends don't know the extent of what she's like.
I worry that if I cut her off as well then something terrible will happen to her, but then if I keep her in my life she's going to bring me down with her.
Has anyone else been through similar? I don't know what to do for the bet
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Thinking of cutting off my toxic, alcoholic mother, struggling with the guilt.
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IDrankAllTheGravy · 25/01/2013 13:14
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