I never thought I would be posting on here.
I am 24. My dh is 34. We have 5 dc dd1 is nearly 8 dtwinson and dtwindaughyer are 5 dd3 is nearly 3 and dd4 is 19 months. I also had a mmc at 12 weeks in 2009
I have/had the merina coil. Found out last friday I am pregnant roughly 5 weeks.
Dh is adament he doesn't want another dc. We talked about having a another dc in the future but not at the moment.
We run our own taxi service which I answer the phones do the admin and he drives he works long and unsocial hours and doesn't get enough sleep as it is to be fair.
He wants me to have an abortion I've been to the doctors and made an appointment for bpas for Tuesday.
I really really really don't want to have an abortion.
He says he wont cope with another dc. He finds it hard to cope with the ones we have at the moment.
He says the final decision is mine. It doesn't feel like mine. I know he would be upset angry annoyed if I keep the baby.
But how can I have another baby knowing I forced him to be a dad again.
He says its unfair of me to force him to be a dad again when he doesn't want it.
How can I bring a baby up knowing dh didn't wanted it. I have no one else to talk to
Sorry its long I just don't know which way to turn.
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Husband wants an abortion I don't please help
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Lemonbuzz · 24/01/2013 09:01
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