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The hair-free thing wouldn't raise an alarm as much as the plain pants, it just seems too specific and makes me think of little girls too. I would avoid like the plague.

Is he a regular porn user?

Has he mentioned wanting to video anything?

Ah yes... he states a preference for the shaven look and he MUST be a paedophile That makes an awful lot of them knocking about.

Maybe the OP should come back and explain a little more about the context.

Oooh he might be a very nice man with a bit of a fantasy - but he wouldn't be coming anywhere near MY girls.

If you've got dds, forget about NOW. Dump the fucker yesterday.

Dump the fucker. NOW.

If its a preference, something he quite likes but would quite happily see you with hair and different underwear, then in the absence of any other possible weirdnesses I would let it go. If he keeps on about it or can't achieve/maintain an erection without it I would leave him.

Good lord....avoid.

All depends for me, on when and how the subject was brought up?

That's really creapy. I'd avoid him.

I don't think it is necessarily an indicatior of an interest in pre-pubescent girls, rather it is the modern trend for women to take the lot off (not that I am on board with that at all).

Personally though I wouldn't want someone to dicate to me, so I would probably not carry on a relationship because he sounds like a bossy twat.

Hmm. Can't imagine asking a potential partner to do that. Wierd.

I would grow my pubes and purchase some black g strings. Hth

Avoid. That preference does seem to reference children - no public hair, plain kid's style pants.

I would feel v uncomfortable introducing him to any young girls.

Avoid.

And if you dont, then take a LOOOONG time before you even think about introducing your kids.

Avoid. If you like someone, you take them as you find them, and don't prescribe how the should appear just to please you.

What puds said.

What's your relationship radar like?. Where did you meet this person (online?).

I would avoid a relationship with such a person regardless of whether I have children or otherwise.

Depends.

A preference? We all have those.

It would depend < for me > on how the topic came up and exactly what he said. Him insisting you do it and/or banging on about it, is very different to you asking him specifically about his likes/dislikes and him venturing this as something he quite liked.

Well, I wouldn't depilate, but I would dress up.

As you've reached the stage where he felt comfortable in raising such a preference, you needn't be inhibited in asking what fantasy underlies his preference. If he's evasive, you might want to think again if you fear he's unduly interested in prepubescent girls. If however it turns out it's say tennis players, you might decide it's OK.

avoid

Avoid.

Ewwwwww.

I've never been with a guy who has had such, umm specific preferences, so this would give me the willies to be honest.

What Puds said