I posted recently about my mum talking to my husband about how our daughter (whose boyfriend is still suffering from the effects of a recent accident) won't be getting any sex, and it was a good job that they weren't married so she could move on, as sex was important to her (all made up stuff). He put down the phone. She called me, I said something along the lines of 'that's not appropriate' and she said 'oh, I'm v. sorry, and hung up on me'.
Anyway, I have not been on especially good terms with my mum for ages (we rub along) and I thought the mature thing to do would be to ring her, and try and build some bridges by saying I love her (which I haven't for years) and take her out to lunch. So I did that today and it went OK.
So, I get home and my husband is angry because a) she hasn't apologised to him and b) he feels she was attention seeking and I gave her what she wanted.
I'm sure that's partly true, but I'm only trying to do the right thing. I'm sorry if it all sounds very petty, but I'm trying to move on and try and get a reasonable relationship with my mum (without being a doormat) and he won't accept that. So, please let me know if I'm wrong, or misguided, as I'm feeling very lost.
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dealt with my mum, now my OH is fed up
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sonearsofar · 08/01/2013 21:52
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