It's my first time posting, I'm sorry if I get anything wrong or ramble!
We have been together for 4 years. I have a dc from a previous relationship who is 6. Engaged for 8 months, I'm now nearly 6 months pregnant.
I don't want to go into too much info to identify myself, but we both use facebook for business. He asked me to help him with his as he's not sure on some things etc. logged in, did what I could, saw a message in box from a mutual friend, told fiancé he says read it. All innocent, but the messages above were all women's names and all with him as the last one to respond. They were all flirty, 'hi how are you gorgeous' 'long time no see my love ' are you married yet?' messages, some with replies some not. All within the last year.
I am gutted, I feel it's inappropriate to message women flirty messages, I see it as a massive disrespect to our relationship. He was on dating sites when we met, and kept his profiles on them for around 3 months after we had the 'its serious' convo.
I would welcome anyone's opinion on this situation, thank you in advance.
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Fiancé messaging 'friends' on f/b - flirty, content, I'm 6 months pregnant :(
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Nosense · 07/01/2013 00:26
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