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I've packed up his stuff! Last straw! Short!

(128 Posts)
tzella Wed 02-Jan-13 11:51:28

The absolute last straw* is that, since being paid plus getting £600 bonus on 24/12, I have £75 left in my account! The cocklodging bastard is GONE TODAY. I'm going to meet him at station and hand over stuff then meet my best friend (who I am not allowed to see!) for £74.99 worth of booze and slagging him off.

What the actual fuck have I been doing?? 2013 starts here smile

* so so so many last staws angry including 'peeling potatoes is boring' on Xmas day!! I spent boxing day writing a variation on this post in my head. Plus, for full disclosure, I took him back after he whacked me sad Utter madness confused

Anniegetyourgun Wed 02-Jan-13 13:17:10

Oh, the feet #shudder#

A hot water bottle will be so much cleaner.

tzella Wed 02-Jan-13 13:21:58

The warm rubbery smell reminds me of my grandmother grin

Wish I could afford one... hmmgrinbiscuit

SirSugar Wed 02-Jan-13 13:22:40

I'd be inclined to tip his stuff outside, why bother meeting the twat?

MushroomSoup Wed 02-Jan-13 13:24:35

Treat yourself! Still have £68 left for boozy afternoon!

Anniegetyourgun Wed 02-Jan-13 13:25:23

In the longer term it'll work out a whole lot cheaper than a cocklodger.

tzella Wed 02-Jan-13 13:26:00

I'm pretty decent and not prone to grand statements anymore. Plus it would be a waste of the silver technology anti-stink M&S socks I got him from Christmas

Oh, I dunno. I could, I suppose hmm

iwantanafternoonnap Wed 02-Jan-13 13:50:27

Just chuck it outside. Thats what I did with my ex's. Felt good grin

twinklesparkles Wed 02-Jan-13 13:52:24

Hope the meet goes well hun smile be careful and don't go anywhere private with him just incase he gets agressive again

Congrats on your newfound freedom

Do you have reciepts for any of the stuff you got him? Take items back to the shops then get yourself down pub smile

PickledInAPearTree Wed 02-Jan-13 13:54:22

Keep your presents to him! Sell them on eBay. Just give him his own stuff back.

NorksAreTinselly Wed 02-Jan-13 13:54:57

Can we all come along, too?
Which station and what time?
We can all turn up in our viperish glory smile

tzella Wed 02-Jan-13 14:48:34

Teehee! It's at a very busy east London station - plenty of people around and several lines for me to choose from. I'm going STRAIGHT to the pub to meet my friend! I don't imagine he will follow me or make a fuss, except for his patented face-like-thunder. So so handsome, such a waste of a physically beautiful man.

They are really nice socks too but all been worn... and washed BY ME! angry Why oh why oh why grin I just did MY washing up in MY house for MY CONVENIENCE. Honestly, all those who say being treated like a slave is a massive turn-off are 100% correct. And once he became no use to me in the bedroom that was the 2nd to last straw hmm. Big haystack of straws instead of elephants in the room...

Sorry for stream of consciousness posting - I'm home alone and it's all coming out here smile

jumpingjackhash Wed 02-Jan-13 14:55:58

Good on you! I will be passing through a busy east London station this evening - I'll be on the look-out for a proud-looking woman handing a bag over to a bloke with a face-like-thunder and send you a cheer!

Allergictoironing Wed 02-Jan-13 15:01:36

Such a pity that you didn't find any UN-washed socks, then you could have included them with any washed clothing so it all gets smelly grin.

I do hope that you crumple up anything that's been ironed......

Sunnywithshowers Wed 02-Jan-13 15:03:10

Well done OP, you sound great smile Enjoy your afternoon. x

FreudianLisp Wed 02-Jan-13 15:06:58

Tzella, you're a strong woman. I hope that 2013 brings you many good things.

tzella Wed 02-Jan-13 15:07:48

Cheers all! flowers

BigBoPeep Wed 02-Jan-13 15:10:10

claps jolly good show, well done you! Agree with the others to watch him though, like a sticky dog turd on your shoe, he might not give up without a fight, he's willing to be aggressive and controlling after all...

Amothersruin Wed 02-Jan-13 16:35:06

OOhh please update op!-I feel this thread could help some other women on here who have been treated like shit by cocklodgers...

Hassled Wed 02-Jan-13 16:39:45

I'm laughing at his "patented face-like-thunder" - have a wonderful evening with your mate, and a wonderful cocklodger-less 2013 grin.

I wanted to add my well done. Keep that determination with you. Have a good time tonight. thanks

msrisotto Wed 02-Jan-13 16:44:11

re: feeling cold in bed, get one of these. Awesome.

HecatePropolos Wed 02-Jan-13 17:19:24

Good for you. Hope it went well.

tzella Wed 02-Jan-13 17:26:51

Not gone yet - couple of hours. I'm halfway through making myself look gorgeous. I want to be early so I can sneak up a different tunnel as he's a master of merging into the background - I'm sure I've read about that on here as well hmm

Not sure it's great form to link to another post but I do feel very much like this poster sad But, to be honest, the repetitiveness of the whole thing has put me off him and I reckon I'll survive.

We--eeeee are never, ever, ever getting back together! Thank god for ripping off niece's Now 83 wine

HecatePropolos Wed 02-Jan-13 17:33:09

Well, hope it goes smoothly.

could do with you on another thread. Woman there with a man who dictates who she can and cannot see sad

tzella Wed 02-Jan-13 17:37:38

I dealt with that by consistently lying, thanks for asking sadangry Seeing women friends was fine but men, no. My gay best friend - certainly not. Male boss was unavoidable but DB was in question. Yes, really. Another straw in the haystack.

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