I had my son on the 13th decemeber via c-section. Its my first child and im no longer with the babies father.
When he was born i was happy, we had a great bond when i was pregnant i use to talk to him and tell him about the outside world.
Now, i dont even want to do anything for him. I have my mum and dad living with me who are supporting me so much, since i've got back from the hospital they have done the night feeds expect 3.
I just cant bond with him, when i change, feed burp him and still crying i either start crying myself or pass him to my mum.
I always look after him in the day change him,feed him etc and im fine i like it. I just dont feel no bond.
My mum said she thinks ive PND? but i dont? But i guess thats what everyone says
I dont really eat i have no intrest in life or him and it makes me really sad i feel this way. I knew it was going to be hard but not this hard.
I dont go out that much as i dont have many friends i was a recluse in my pregnancy. When they put me in mums groups its always young ones.. Im 19 nearly 20 what do i have in common with a 14 year old expect being pregnant?
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I just cant cope anymore!
xmasevebundle · 31/12/2012 11:31
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