Hi,
DH drinks around a bottle of wine a night, sometimes more. I don't know whether it's too much and I'm right to be worried or I'm being over the top. I hate it and am sure it's not normal - is it? Surely it could have long term effects on his health? He's making me doubt myself as he says it's only a bottle of wine, but it's usually wine, then anything else in the house that he can get his hands on. The other day he bought a small bottle of JD (for Christmas) and has drunk it in 2 nights (after a bottle of wine each night). He sometimes buys two bottles of wine (white for me, red for him) but I usually only drink one or two glasses and then go to bed. He will always finish my bottle as well as his, even though I get annoyed about it (not because it's 'my' wine but because I'm worried that he can't seem to stop himself). He has, twice, drunk a special bottle I had been given (champagne given to me as presents) and was saving for a special occasion because he'd started drinking and then not been able to stop himself. I was so angry as I was saving them and all he could say was that he'd replace them (he never did) and what's the big deal. Missing the point.
I don't trust him not to lie about how much he's drinking. He's been working these last few days and said he was going to try to get a hotel as he had late finishes/early starts but now I'm wondering whether he's done it so he can have a drink. Though he does quite often work away so it's not entirely unusual for him to stay overnight.
He is quite often so drunk that he goes to the toilet several times during the night, staggers about and can't find the toilet so I have to wake up and switch the light on so he can find the door. He also coughs a lot when he's had a drink so I quite often have very disturbed sleep.
What can I do? It's making me really angry at him, and worried. But I don't know what to say to him to make him stop. I've actually resorted to hiding my half empty bottles of wine when I go to bed so that he doesn't drink them.
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goandshowdaddy · 23/12/2012 17:53
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