My dp just cannot see any good in anything. He can barely cope with the kids, hates his job, does no exercise, takes little pride in his appearance, criticises me, complains about very small things, etc.
It is really bringing me down too.
He doesn't sleep well and has been taking sleeping pills bought overseas to sleep. He drinks moderately (regularly but not to excess) and smokes this horrendous skunk at least once or twice a week.
He says he is only happy on his own.
He refuses to take on board my pov that skunk is mind altering and bad news. He says it doesn't affect him.
I am sick of living with a miserable bastard and I feel sad and impotent that I can't help.
He hasn't been to the dr yet but is planning on going after Christmas.i doubt he will mention the weed anyway.
I am sorry for him but so tired of this atmosphere. Aibu to wish he would just get on with it, exercise and stop the weed for all our sakes?
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formallyknownasloveydarling · 22/12/2012 08:17
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