Am in two minds about what to do. A friend has upset me, not for the first time I hasten to add. Before I tackled her about it and she improved for a year or so and now has slipped back into old habits. To briefly sum it up, she wants me to listen to her problems all the time and if I ever want to talk about anything about me she brushes it off and changes the subject. She did this last night about something I wanted to talk about. Bear in mind that in the past month she has had a (nother) problem and I have spent hours and hours on the phone to her late at night.
Do I phase her out or do I tackle her? I'm in two minds. In one way I feel she's had her chance to improve things, and in other ways I feel I'd be being unfair to just stop bothering with her without giving her another chance to sort out her behaviour.
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Is it best to tell a friend if they've upset you?
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MrsMangelfanciedPaulRobinson · 18/12/2012 09:03
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