I've just found out my exH is critically ill and I'm feeling a little strange about it and I'm not sure how I should be feeling.
We split up 8 years ago and I have since met my lovely DP and I now have 2 lovely DCs. I was with my ex for 15 yrs and married for 5 of those years. We had a difficult relationship - he had a serious mental breakdown for the last 2 years of our relationship, but even before that there were issues. He had a very dominant personality and a destroyed my confidence. I pretended to be happy much of the time just to keep the peace and to keep up the facade of a happy relationship.
So I have just found out he's critically ill - and I feel numb and a bit weird. I can't really talk about it with my DP but I really need some help with how I feel about it all. Has anyone got any words of wisdom for me?
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Just found out my ex-H is critically ill
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TheBightyMoosh · 18/12/2012 01:38
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