My DP and I have been together for 2.5 years and living together for 18 months. he lives with us in what was my house with my 3 kids. His children are older and live independently.
My mother is a widow and lives close. His mother is a widow and also lives close.
My mother does not like my DP (she has never once liked or approved of any man with whom I have had a relationship, this included my now ExH - I am now almost 50) so its nothing to do with him per se. She could probably be polite to him for Christmas Day but he, who is an only child , does not want to leave his mum alone on Xmas day. and my mother could definitely not 'tolerate' another 'grandmother type' person in the house on Christmas day.
So DP and I , who are very happy together, have to spend Christmas Day apart. My mother will come to me, and he will go to his Mum and cok for her. I will have to do all the cooking and clearing up (if he were there we would share it) I have only 2 days off over Christmas and I feel forced to spend it apart form the person I love best because of her (my mothers attitude.
WWYD ? (honestly - bearing in mind that she is mid 70's )
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Am I being stupid, or considerate ?
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Foolagain · 17/12/2012 10:32
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