Discovered STBXH's affair last new year .. Put him out and contacted a lawyer .. Got my own pension valuations by April .. Finally got his through last week
Our house was sold in August and DD and I have been living with my mum in a tiny house for the last 4 months .. I am desperate to get my own place
So the finances are being split 50/50 and he has £16k that he owes me off of his half of the house equity as his pension is worth much more than mine. And he was crying on the phone saying that if he fives me the £16k it will mean he won't be able to buy a house in as good an area for our DD7.. My mum thinks it is just emotional blackmail
He said that I earn more than him but he has more potential for promotion and is 4 years younger and so could take a mortgage over a longer period
Any views on this? He always makes me feel as though I am being unreasonable
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So I've finally got the pension valuations and he's crying on the phone
KirstyWirsty · 16/12/2012 18:28
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