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OD advice, is he playing it cool or not interested.

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sunny177 Wed 05-Dec-12 18:01:52

Well I have been OD for about 2 months after finishing from a lt relationship 6 months ago. Been chatting to this guy who is lovely and had 2 dates. Both went really well and we had a laugh and both seemed to enjoy ourselves. He has been texting me since the 2nd date as have I. Just general stuff like how was your day and what are you up to etc nothing flirty or otherwise romantic. We went on our second date on Saturday and he said he'd like to get together again at some point but no arrangements had been made, I Kind of initiated 2nd date so don't want to be the one to ask this time and guessing that I should let him say so I know if he does like me or not.

SorryMyCandyCaneLollipop Fri 07-Dec-12 22:49:43

So what's the situation now sunny? Have you asked him out again? Has he asked you out?

sunny177 Fri 07-Dec-12 23:16:50

Well he's still been texting loads but his mum is really poorly and sounds like things aren't too good with her so he is a bit all over the place. Been a bit more flirty though and hinted at getting together just no plans as yet. I'll keep you all posted smile

SorryMyCandyCaneLollipop Fri 07-Dec-12 23:20:35

Please do, hope it goes well.

I met my BF online, the early days were quite tricky especially with dating etiquette, texting etc, after not being on the dating scene for 16 years. 7 months on all is well smile

sunny177 Sat 08-Dec-12 00:17:58

It is so weird isn't it? I was only 16 last time I dated anyone and then there was no texting and everything seemed so simple lol. X def will let you know. Nice to hear someone else's positive experience, like you 15 years out of the saddle takes some getting used to again grin

Viviennemary Sat 08-Dec-12 00:29:18

I'd say if he's texting he's still interested otherwise why would he bother. Two dates is very early days but I can't see why there shouldn't be more dates. Can't say for certain of course!

sunny177 Sun 09-Dec-12 16:46:36

Hey all, he's been texting even suggesting we watch a film at his in new year so I just went for it and asked him again in which he sounded keen and going out Thursday or Saturday babysitter dependent lol. Will keep you all posted wink

sunny177 Sun 16-Dec-12 13:19:27

Hey all, just another quick update. Went it cinema last night and after he said he'd had a great time and would love to see me again! He is def very shy though or just a gentlemen??

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