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So I'm in love with my gay best friend

(48 Posts)
TakingBackMonday Wed 05-Dec-12 00:17:29

And it seems he is with me too.

And, awkwardly,his best mate who I've known almost as long (decade) seems to also quite love me and we went on one date...

SHIT

Monty27 Wed 05-Dec-12 00:19:33

Is this a riddle? You're gay too? confused

AnyFuckerForAMincePie Wed 05-Dec-12 00:21:13

Is that you, Maria ?

TakingBackMonday Wed 05-Dec-12 00:21:15

No

And maybe I feel same. I adore him,just never saw him like that, but gahh I fucking love and adore

TakingBackMonday Wed 05-Dec-12 00:21:49

Nope AF, but you've fixed my relationship issues years ago smile

TakingBackMonday Wed 05-Dec-12 00:22:37

But risking friendships, not sure, HE IS GAY. Arghhhhhh

AnyFuckerForAMincePie Wed 05-Dec-12 00:23:44

Sorry, just being a bit silly.

Wow.

Ok, this gay BFF...is he Bi ? Because this could actually work you know smile

Monty27 Wed 05-Dec-12 00:24:07

What gender are you all?

Eeeeh it's just like Bob & Rose.

TakingBackMonday Wed 05-Dec-12 00:24:32

Me girl him boy

AnyFuckerForAMincePie Wed 05-Dec-12 00:24:58

and the third spoke...is that a boy ?

AnyFuckerForAMincePie Wed 05-Dec-12 00:25:44

You have 2 people that love you ?

Bloody awful dilemma ! Are you Cheryl Cole then ?

TakingBackMonday Wed 05-Dec-12 00:26:02

Yeah bi. Quote: "darling wouldn't you me cocky?" (Was drunk) him: no I've always loved you, and I'm bored of that

This is all a bit 'Dawsons Creek' for me confused

Monty27 Wed 05-Dec-12 00:26:15

grin

Hmmm, but it's a bit complicated if they're both in love with you isn't it?

Has he had female partners before?

TakingBackMonday Wed 05-Dec-12 00:26:37

*wouldnt you miss cock

AnyFuckerForAMincePie Wed 05-Dec-12 00:26:44

"darling wouldn't you me cocky?"

fuck yeah, you were drunk

AnyFuckerForAMincePie Wed 05-Dec-12 00:26:59

grin

TakingBackMonday Wed 05-Dec-12 00:27:09

He did in past yes

TakingBackMonday Wed 05-Dec-12 00:27:37

AF read my correction

Meh I've declared my undying love for a lamp post while drunk before now, I wouldn't read too much into it.

LightHousekeeping Wed 05-Dec-12 00:28:44

It's all abit Corrie.

AnyFuckerForAMincePie Wed 05-Dec-12 00:28:48

Has he had relationships with women before ?

have you been with bi men before ?

it can work...if you both wanted the same level of commitment and are on the same page

no different to hetero-normative (yes, i learned it from sgb..) stuff from that pov

Monty27 Wed 05-Dec-12 00:28:49

grin

Oh he likes fanjo too then? What about the third party? His bf is also male and gay?

AnyFuckerForAMincePie Wed 05-Dec-12 00:29:25

we x-posted, TBM smile

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