I just wondered if anyone has any advice, as this is a hard one to talk about with real life friends.
Myself and DH have always had a great sex life, but since being pregnant with DS (now 12 weeks) it's disappeared to almost nothing. During pregnancy, my sex drive disappeared completely in the 1st trimester (the constant puking may have had something to do with that), but then in the 2bd trimester I developed SPD and it was agony to open my legs! So during the whole pregnancy we only had sex a handful of times. But since DS was born, I seem to have zero sex drive. I just can't switch off - we've managed it twice and I spent the whole time worrying we were making too much noise & were going to wake him! TBH didn't enjoy it at all & I think it showed :-/ DH is fab, he's not pushing me at all, we're getting on great, he's a fab dad to DS and always affectionate & supportive towards me. But I know he's a bit frustrated (he's had several wet dreams, first time since his teens!) and I feel guilty. Plus I really miss sex - I used to love it, and would have always said I had a high sex drive. I don't know what's wrong with me at the moment.
Is this normal? I'm breastfeeding, so could the hormones be affecting me? I had a caesarian so not sore down below. And, what on earth do I do to get my mojo back?!
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clarabella1980 · 27/11/2012 16:51
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