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As a femaley womany type how do I show a guy I fancy him?

(214 Posts)
SoleSource Sat 24-Nov-12 16:33:59

Help!!

AViewfromtheFridge Mon 26-Nov-12 23:03:39

Every little helps!

I'm playing it cool. Might resort to the foofume if he hasn't made a move by Christmas.

noseinabook Mon 26-Nov-12 21:44:54

He was sooooooooo cute! A little shorter than me, and I had high heels on oo :-/ but it didn't put either of us off, lol.

I doubt I'll see him again - I'm not the fun party girl he thought I was, lol. Too much feckin stress and drama in my life, I'm a right grumpy mare most days! Kinda looking for someone to settle down with, not just mess around iyswim. There is someone around who is the settling down type and isnt fazed by all my domestic sh*t, but he's a crap kisser and I'm not sure I can get past that.

But yeah, little 'un was luuuuuush. I could still smell his aftershave on my hands when I went home ....... ahhhhhhhh

But Tesco man is still there on the back burner. If nothing else I'll demand a christmas kiss off him smile All part of their customer service!

SoleSource Mon 26-Nov-12 21:36:07

Hello nose smile

Was wondering about you! Way to go! -grin
So you seeing him again?

Bet he was dishy

still got to try and get info put of Tesco man...cone onyou can do it!

noseinabook Mon 26-Nov-12 21:30:11

I bottled out of my tesco man on Sunday.

However ...... very cute friend of a friend of a friend in a wine bar on Saturday. I only needed to say to him "I could snog your face off" and lo and behold, he let me! smile Up until that point I thought my libido was in negative figures ...... apparently not!

SoleSource Mon 26-Nov-12 21:09:11

grin
I want to know what becomes of.the other people with their crushes.

It was a pickled onion sandwich and it was delicious. I will pay for it at 3am when I wake up with indigestion though <poor pregnant dinosaur>

I have always eaten pickled onion sandwiches even when not pregnant

My toddler also ate a fair few picked onions <proud>

2muchxmaspud Mon 26-Nov-12 19:00:42

Misread one post as

Clean big knob... then when I did a double take with jaw flapping open I noticed the comma in between clean and big.

Was worried about you having sti nky knobs in the past... blush

CheerfulYank Mon 26-Nov-12 18:51:16

Aw, Sole. But it's good you were interested! That's a start.

DH is also a giant (6'5") and all the men on my side of the family (besides my poor runty dad) are solid as tree trunks. DS has taken from both and is tall and big...built like a brick shithouse at 5 years old.

SoleSource Mon 26-Nov-12 18:37:44

Lol was tbat your tea?
Do dinosaurs eat.pickled onions? confused

You are not a real dinosaur, you're a fake!!

!shock

I have just eaten half a jar of pickled onions. That would send any man running for the hills grin

SoleSource Mon 26-Nov-12 17:04:32

I don't have either. I'm not rich. sad

InSPsFanjoNoOneHearsYouScream Mon 26-Nov-12 16:59:43

Drink the vodka in your four poster. I would grin

SoleSource Mon 26-Nov-12 16:50:23

Ooh that's not my.thing. 'm just me. If tbey want me to worship tbem, noo.

Dismantling my four poster tonight.

Just me and my vodka

Viviennemary Mon 26-Nov-12 16:45:39

Hang on to his every word and make him believe you think he's wonderful. Even if you don't. Otherwise just ask him out for a drink if you feel confident enough.

I love you Sole. Have just read this fred, PMSL grin

If I were a man, I'd be chasing you down the street with my wanger out.... wink

SoleSource Mon 26-Nov-12 16:40:41

Married men use online dating, so I hear.

SoleSource Mon 26-Nov-12 16:36:23

I have known this guy for ages. First attempt in four years. I haven't been ibtetested until.noe. Online datibg not for me. Full of shit heads

Lovingfreedom Mon 26-Nov-12 16:34:21

Have you tried online dating? Plenty of guys on there and caters for a variety of tastes and preferences. Loads of guys appreciate a fuller figure. More likely to work than approaching random guys hoping they are not married/attached.

SoleSource Mon 26-Nov-12 16:33:29

No past that. He gone! sad

InNeedOfBrandy Mon 26-Nov-12 16:32:46

right now don't do what I do and lust after unattainable men!

SoleSource Mon 26-Nov-12 16:32:25

Yrah I did didn't I hehehe just sitting here chuffed with myself. Ooh Italian mm

BeerTricksPott3r Mon 26-Nov-12 16:31:03

Well, you plucked up the courage to ask him and find out if he was married. So well done for that. smile

SoleSource Mon 26-Nov-12 16:30:21

Yeah, thanks for all tbe advice Brandy, Fanjo, AF etcxx

It is good my confidence is coming back.

SoleSource Mon 26-Nov-12 16:28:47

I don't think I will ever fi.d a man,.just for me. All single, lovely, honest, good values, reliable, trustworthy, passionate, clean, big knob

InNeedOfBrandy Mon 26-Nov-12 16:28:18

Argh how annoying! Well done though!

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