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As a femaley womany type how do I show a guy I fancy him?

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SoleSource · 24/11/2012 16:33

Help!!

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dequoisagitil · 24/11/2012 16:35

Lick his ear.

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noseinabook · 24/11/2012 16:36

Flick your hair and bite your lip ....

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SoleSource · 24/11/2012 16:38

Lol oooh the shames!! Blush

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BeerTricksPott3r · 24/11/2012 16:43

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SoleSource · 24/11/2012 16:45

BeerTricks!! I am shocked and....

Ooh no, the children aree on the bus..


AND I AM AS FAT AS A HOUSE

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WrathdePan · 24/11/2012 16:46

Ask him out. There is no other way with most men. We ( one here) are remarkably unintuitive about this stuff.

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SoleSource · 24/11/2012 16:48

I'm fat so doomed to singledom.

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SoleSource · 24/11/2012 16:50

Wrath if a woman asked you out and you did not fancy her, one jot. What would be your response?

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BeerTricksPott3r · 24/11/2012 16:51

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SoleSource · 24/11/2012 16:54

I am terrified of rejection Beer. I've had so much I should be used to it. But for meit diesn't fel tbat way. He picks myDS up for school everyday so maybe be inappropriate.....?

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WrathdePan · 24/11/2012 16:55

It would be/has been: "Wow. Thank you for asking, but I am really not looking to go out with anyone. But it's extremely nice of you to ask".

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WrathdePan · 24/11/2012 16:57

it's also how you say it.

Poppycock to the fat thing too. It'll make you feel far more vulnerable than it actually is. Evidence? LOTS of overweight women have good men in their lives.

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IAmSoFuckingRock · 24/11/2012 16:58

i've never asked a man out. like you sole, i'm terrified of rejection.

i like Pan's response. i could cope with that. if i was sure i would get a nice rejection like that i would probably be a bit more confident in the whole asking thing. but i wont. 'cause some people aren't nice.

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IAmSoFuckingRock · 24/11/2012 16:59

and lots of skinny girls have no men! personality far more important.

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WrathdePan · 24/11/2012 17:00

yep to the personality thing.

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TessCowDirect · 24/11/2012 17:01

Fear of rejection is far more likely to be getting in the way of a relationship than being overweight.

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SoleSource · 24/11/2012 17:02

Example

Hello [no idea of his name]

I was wondering. Fancy a bounce on a four poster,?

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BeerTricksPott3r · 24/11/2012 17:03

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AnyFucker · 24/11/2012 17:04

Do you actually have a four poster ?

Because that wouldn't work if you didn't Smile

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TessCowDirect · 24/11/2012 17:04

Save that for the second date Grin

Do you know anything about him that could start a conversation?

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SoleSource · 24/11/2012 17:05

True Beer

Erm no I don't AF lol

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InNeedOfBrandy · 24/11/2012 17:06

I asked a man out, it was the whole omg I can't even think straight around him, felt sick the butterflies were going so hard. We ended up shagging for 6 months, he was going to put me in his aunties house (cos I only have a flat and was maoning about wanting a garden) and I realised no way could I shga him forever to keep a roof over mine and dc head. I still fancy him now but I see it's physical and we don't actually match apart from the sex it was fucking amazing, but I had to do it because I thought well I can't get old and sit in an old people home thinking I wish I did.

I asked his friend for his bb pin (he had already met me at a party) and we arranged a date, I didn't specifically say oh I fancy you I text so whats good and it went from there. He asked me out and obviously fancied me back.

I do think I wasted a lot of head space on him but I don't regret it I had to find out if that omg I want to shag him and I can't think about anything else meant anything more.

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dequoisagitil · 24/11/2012 17:06

You don't know his name?

Try having a conversation with him. Then see if you still want to ask him out.

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InNeedOfBrandy · 24/11/2012 17:08

sole as he's the kids bus driver can't you buy him a christmas present (box of quality street) and say happy christmas thankyou for what your doing...

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