I'll try and keep it simple. Basically I had a serious relationship, we were planning on moving in together, and suddenly he got offered a job in the USA and took it. He had worked there a lot, for up to a month at a time, and I visited him once ovr there. So he moved and I didn't see him again, for a few weeks we spoke, but I heard on the grapevine he was dating someone so stopped contact. But now, every time I see anything to do with where he lives on tv, or hear people talking about it, I fill up with resentment, upset and anger. It's been over two years now, and I'm in another serious relationship but I can't gt past this.
The thing is, I know deep down we were not right for each other, we were very different, we argued a lot etc, but I cared of him deeply. Any ideas on what I can do? I just can't seem to get over it.
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OldCatLady · 14/11/2012 11:29
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