Dear ladies,
I always thought that I would know if my husband was having an affair but I was completely in the dark and still would be if his email acct didn't have an automatice sign in via my laptop.
He has built an emotional relationship one with one of his x girlfriends which makes it even more painful and to top it off he hasn't told me that he doesn't want us anymore. Also he is feeding me a pack of lies about not being available to see our son, he' has not seen him for 10 days now.
2 weeks ago, I found a photo on his mobile phone, a picture of his 'erect member' sent to someone in his address book that was just initials, I confronted him with it and he said it must of been a work colleague. I asked for a copy of the telephone bill, four days later no bill, he walked out saying he wanted a trial separation, as what was the point if there was no trust !
August Bank Holiday we had a big D&M, neither of us were really happy. We've been together for 8 years, married for 2 (on this NYE) and have a 3 year old son. I just thought that we were in a bit of a rut and that it would turn around. We seemed to be getting on better even though the bedroom department wasn't happening.
Seeing the emails from them both is so hurtful, but at least it makes it so final for me, there is not a shred of love left for him just pure disgust and disbelieve. I can't believe that we had a life together for 8 years and how little resect he has shown me. Feel like telling him that I know all about his sad new life but then I want to wait to see how much longer he would keep it going for without telling me.
Biggest worry I have right now is keeping the house over our heads, i only work part time. What a mess. Feels like I'm having an out of body experience !
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Husband left 12 days ago, we have a 3 year old son
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KDKDKD · 06/11/2012 08:34
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