I've never been close to my dads side of the family. Dad was thrown out aged 16, grandparents pretty cold/strange etc; When my dad died 9 yrs ago one of his two sisters Aunt A pretty much decided my mum and I weren't real family any more (although the sun shines out of my brothers arse). Aunt B is nice enough but will always side with her sister IYSWIM.
Aunt B has two daughters. Cousin A is just like Aunt A - deeply unhappy women who bitch, backstab and lash out rather than fix their own lives. Cousin B is nice enough but like her mum sides with her sister.
Easy solution, I have nothing to do with any of them. Life is too short.
It might be a bit awkward next summer as my brother is getting married but frankly weddings are big events and I plan to just avoid them all. I get on well with brother's inlaws-to-be and his mates.
The problem: Cousin B keeps adding me on Facebook and has now sent a message. She's recently had her second child and my first is due soon. I don't want to ignore her but I don't feel I need her in my life and she's really close to Aunt A and Cousin A. Obviously I can't tell her I don't trust anyone who chooses to be close to such toxic vapid bitches but what is reasonable? Or do I just ignore her and be rude to someone who is mostly nice?
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What do I do about my cousin?
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WaitingForMe · 04/11/2012 08:37
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