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Not certain why she's done this or how I should approach it, if at all!

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NoWayNoHow · 07/10/2012 20:46

My cousin has defriended me, my sister, my Dad and one of her sisters (but not both) on Facebook.

No idea when it happened, just noticed yesterday when I went on to send her a message.

No idea what I may or may not have done wrong (think we had a mild and slightly jokey disagreement about K-Middy's topless situation a few weeks ago, but that's seriously it!!), and definitely no idea why she would get rid of my Dad, who was her father's cousin and best friend, and indeed her own sister, especially as her and her sister don't live in the same country, so they use FB to keep up to date with each other's lives on a day to day basis.

I sent her a text yesterday on the anniversary of her Dad's death telling her I was thinking of her, but have had absolutely no response. The last time I saw her, she made a 600 mile round trip just to be at my birthday. So weird...

Any ideas how to move forward with this?

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Whocansay · 07/10/2012 20:56

Is there anyone who lives close by to her who you could ask to check on her and possibly talk to her for you? It sounds as if she's still grieving.

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NoWayNoHow · 07/10/2012 21:15

No, she lives 6,000 miles away from her family, but with her partner of 17 years. I think the defriending happened a little while ago as she's quite prolific on FB and I haven't noticed any posts for a while, so I don't think the two are connected ( the anniversary was yesterday - 5 years)