Hello everyone, I'm new to mumsnet and I have such a dilema I don't know what to do. I am getting on a bit (40) and have been with my boyfriend (40) for 18 months now. We knew each other when we were little at school and met up again through mutual friends at a school reunion. My dilema is that although I care for him very much and he is a decent man (although he did lie about being separated from his wife when we met), I feel like there's a social void between us. We have very little in common beyond old school friends and teachers. He's very much a home bird, works in the local huge factory, has an enormous number of friends and enjoys the simple life of pub/dog walks/children. He is struggling financially so I pay for most things and because he feels bad about this, won't cooperate if I suggest a holiday abroad or weekend trip. I feel like Im' being suffocated as we do the same thing week in week out. Before I met him I went abroad twice a year, had several weekends away during the year and loved to try new things. I used to travel a lot for my work but have now settled locally so that hasn't helped. I just feel like we are from two different worlds. My dilema is that I've just found out I'm pregant. He doesn't know yet as I've been contemplating ending things but I feel like a whitch for even thinking like that. It's just that I don't think I can stand another night in front of X Factor with a tray of mash and gravy - however lovingly he's cooked it! Sorry for the mega post.
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