I am half way through pregnancy and have a large bump. It was an unplanned pregnancy and prior to the stick turning blue our relationship was full of wine and cocktails and fun and sex and revealing clothes! It was fantastic!! My partner is unbelievably excited and supportive of baby but... I can't wear what I used to, we can't swing from the chandeliers like we used to and we obviously can't have sexy very very boozy nights out/in like we did. We also used to have quite erm... 'aggressive' sex that I am now too scared to do in case anything happens to the baby.
I am also stuck at home at the moment due to lack of work and he has a new job where he is the only man in an office with about 7 or 8 women. He tells me they are all old and married with children - but I am still very paranoid and feel like the frumpy boring ball and chain he comes home to. They asked him out for tonight which he of course is welcome to do (would never tell him what to do) but he declined and is taking me out instead - as I said he is lovely - in his words "They said we should all go out and get pissed!" I can't compete with anyone in this state and while I know I am prob being really silly it bothers me and worries me. My partner and I met at work. He is incredibly sexy and intelligent and women were always after him in the office - I saw with my own eyes. He comes home and tells me about his day and says 'Sarah said bla bla and Tanya says Bla bla and then Lindsey said this. and I just feel wretched! I don't know what my Q is really - how can I still be sexy when I look like I ate a watermelon?
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Pregnant and feeling unsexy - paranoid about partner&women from work
DueinFeb · 05/10/2012 11:03
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