I can not believe this.
His daughter is on 2 prozacs a day after seeing him 2 years ago. Is having to give up her University studies and is severely depressed. I have helped her change her phone number due to his inappropriate text messages.
Does the church not check the background when selecting people?
Did they not ask about his children, where they were, what they were doing?
He was emotionally abusive, controlling and drew pictures of transvestites. I was told get out the marriage or you will be constantly depressed. 18 months to get him to sign the divorce papers. 3 months to get him out of the house after the divorce; eventually I took my daughter on holiday to avoid another Christmas and changed the locks thinking when I return there will be a new start for myself and daughter. I owned the house outright. He got back in by showing a locksmith a letter with his name on it and changed the locks. I returned from holiday after driving 180 miles at 10 30 pm at night to discover all this.
So much more I could say. Who wants to know and who would listen?
3 months after he left the house, he sent a letter to my closest friend accusing her of influencing me to divorce him and insisting that she never contacted me again. He closed the letter by saying he had people to save.
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LiddyBe · 04/10/2012 17:43
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