Sexual life is not great at the moment, I have no sex drive and he turned to porn. I don't feel comfortable with it for many reasons and mainly because we have a daughter and also because I was exposed to porn as a child and I don't think it caused me any good. We had a long conversation about it the other day and he admits understands the way I feel abut it and that watching it gives him a superficial short term pleasure....until he logs on again. Obviously I am an easy target to blame as I'm not keen on having sex. I know people will tell me to consult with a doctor but I'm fine not having sex and I don't want to change it. I suggest separation so he can find someone to have an intimate normal relationship with but he doesn't want to. I made it clear I won't have sex just to satisfying him. I know we have to compromise in marriage but I'm not willing to compromise with my body anymore. So maybe I should live him alone to watch his porn? It is not a secret at all and I'm not shocked he does it, just feel extremely uncomfortable and I wish he would use his time and brain power to do something more constructive and useful.
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Sickandsad ·
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