My dh and I (and 3 kids) live 200 miles from where we grew up and have left our friends and family behind to move with dh's work.
I have found our relationship has suffered and recently I have realised that I find lots of pressure from being the only other significant adult on his life.
When we recently visited home for a few weeks i foundhim having his best mate around made life easier for me. He would go off with him and do stuff and there was less pressure for me to hurry home if I went off to do something. All in all I found it a much healthier situation.
Dh of course doesn't see this at all. Infact when I have mentioned this to him he takes it quite personally.
ANyone have a situation where you are literally everything to your partner? Not sure how to remedy the situation without my dh feeling I am being unkind.
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dizzybiatch · 03/09/2012 13:02
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