Recently met someone new. It is very early days but all seems to be going really well so far. The only possible issue - and this is on his side not mine - is that I have a very good job (higher tax bracket, albeit only but a few £s), nice house etc whereas he isnt working at the moment due to combination of failed business/ill health.
As I say for me it's not an issue. I've always paid my own way in past relationships (even when they were much better off than me) and am certainly not looking for a man to keep me! He has said that he feels uncomfortable about not being able to offer to pay for things (instead of splitting the bill as we do), buying me flowers & gifts, sometimes not being able to call or text me cos he's run out of credit. None of this matters to me, but I think he is used to being much better off, and in a position to do all this, whereas now he's not.
Has anyone else been through this? Can it work out? And apart from saying it doesnt matter - which it doesnt - is there anything else I can do?
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twoonefive · 04/08/2012 12:20
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