I have wanted to leave my other half for a long time as he makes me unhappy. He had an affair 3 and a half years ago and I still have not got over it. I never bring it up with him but I feel like things will never be the same. I feel like I am missing out on love and the fun that goes with it. The problem is every time I pluck up the courage to leave I chicken out as I am scared of change and the thought of never seeing him again, as deep down I do love him but I just have no respect for him anymore after what he did. We have a toddler and I just think the longer I leave it the worse it will be for her, but I just do not have the courage to leave and cope with the change it would bring. Any advice would be welcomed.
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want to leave other half but scared of change
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flower2009 · 02/08/2012 20:27
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