I've just found out about "D"H sleeping with another woman. I am mad at him, but we've been going through a rough time lately, not excusing him, but I think I want to give it another shot. I just can't face the thought of dating again as much as anything else, and such hopes for the future, after a tough time recently things were starting to look up - famous last words! Been married 10 years - and just feel like its been a waste!
At the moment just feel sick, but have DD to think about. We were meant to be trying for another baby! Looks like that's put on hold then. I look at him and can't believe he'd do something like this.
How do you go about trusting again ..... am so mad with the other woman at the moment - found out from a letter in DH's pocket when put jeans into the wash. (She'd given it him the day before.) And in it she told him to give my DD a big hug from her! Oh and apparently its only his decision whether we have another baby and not hers or mine! I'd be carrying the baby for 9mths WTF. (She is a married mum of 3 by the way that he used to go to school with and who got back in touch with him this May.)
Please tell me it gets easier - as at the moment I'm just trying not to cry in front of DD. Sorry for venting but only person I can talk to in RL, and who wouldn't be judgemental about considering staying with him, is in hospital.
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Please be kind, I'm feeling very raw - other people who have stayed with their husbands please come and advise
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ickywickyyicky · 01/08/2012 19:01
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