so I thought I'd see what MN wisdom says:
He started dating a lady he met on the internet a couple of years ago but after a very short honeymoon period he started having doubts.
Her mum was terminally ill so he felt he was being a bit of a * by finishing with her and so he just let it drag on and kept chickening out of being straight with her. He did try to make her see that they should finish but each time she would talk him round by threatening suicide.
FFWD to the May just gone and they finally called it a day. He did that thing where they offer to stay friends but she said no she wanted to sever it completely.
He's started dating a new lady and it seems to be going pretty well, but now his ex is ringing and texting him pretty much every day. He hasn't responded to the texts and he hasn't answered or returned the calls but there are a ton of voicemails. She keeps asking him to call and in one of them said her mum had had a heart attack and was really ill.
He doesn't know whether to keep ignoring her or respond to her in some way and if so how.
I think he feels a total * for ignoring her but also doesn't want to 'encourage' her or give false hope. I said maybe she'll get the message and give up but he says she's really thick-skinned as well as strong-willed. He's worried it's going to affect his new relationship which he seems to want to make a go of.
I've never been in either his or her position (fortunately) so I don't know what to tell him really. Any ideas?
Oh and I'm not the new woman posing as a concerned friend btw, I am just a friend!!
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My male friend asked my advice and I really have no idea
PrincessOfSnails · 26/07/2012 15:35
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