I was never liked very much at school. I was in primary school and initially at high school but then we moved areas for the second year of high school, I moved schools and was bullied/disliked from the outset. I lost touch with all my primary friends so have no friends that I have known all my life, which is what I crave. Long term friendships.
Every one I am friends with just goes off me after a while. So-called friends treat me like dirt. I have two friends that I thought were my good friends but they are hot and cold with me. Whenever I take the bull by the horns and suggest to anyone that we go out or they come round for a coffee, it's always answered with a no, as they are too busy, or already going out, or too tired, or whatever. Another friend that I've known for several years is being a total cow to me at the moment because I didn't do something she wanted me to do. She keeps making snipey comments on my FB and if I comment on anything of hers she 'likes' everyone else's comments and ignores mine. She has also said some horrible things to me recently via text.
I am on the verge of giving up on the idea of having any friends. There doesn't seem any point. Why am I unable to have long-term friends that stick with me through thick and thin and with whom I can feel secure in the friendship? No one ever values me.
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No one ever likes me :-(
putthatbeakerdown · 08/07/2012 12:12
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