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[LostMyIdentityAlongTheWay]

Dh is night time tranny, he likes to relax in women's gear after a bath. Didn't know this when we married. I don't like it, but support him in it cos it dies help him relax, and he's def a depressive so this helps keep the black dogs at bay. Trust me, when he's really bad, it brings me down too. It's v hard to help him out of it when he's there.
This isn't about whether he should.stop etc, not a convo that will help as when he has stopped before he hit REALLY low and frankly thus the lesser of two evils for him to x dress.
Our sex life is pretty much over now. It has killed all.desire in me for him. I'm kinda ok with this, frankly you don't miss what you don't get...

But am wondering. Once or twice I've had the come on for quick affairs. Am utterly disinterested in leaVing my dh. Not only do I love him, I also LIKE him ever such a lot. But sometimes I think Christ I'd love to have the best sex of my life. I aM quite sure it hasn't happened. When we dtd its ok but sometimes shit. ProbaBly like many others' sex lives. Sometimes good. Sometimea not!

So any other tranny wives haVe this problem? I don't know whether I would do if. I don't like the idea of infidelity, probaBly it'll never happen, so that's that. And I'm 40 now, so not like I'm turning lots of heads! That sounds vain, please see it as the humour its intended to be! But I do think bloody hello matey, did u change the gialposts or WHAT?

would I be tarred with the same 'slapper' brush? Sometimes my thoughts on thus go round and round till I think I'll pop!

[LostMyIdentityAlongTheWay]

Sorry, this posted twice, please respond on the other tranny post if you wish to... Many Thx,
Lost....

[LeoTheLateBloomer]

I have no experience in this, but my instinct is to say you need to talk to your DH about how you're feeling. You clearly love and respect him and having a seedy, secretive affair is no way to treat a person who's so important to you.

If you're to sleep with other men, you need to do it with his knowledge and acceptance.

Good luck.