I feel rejected that you do not want a non-sexual physical relationship with me. You kiss me twice a day, and unless we have sex, that is as much as you touch me; I get more affection from our children. Blaming me for your inability to achieve/maintain an erection is why I don't want to have sex with you - and despite your protestations of love, if you did love me that much, you'd get yourself sorted out.
I am exasperated at your attempts to control everything. I am an adult, and fully capable of managing myself, despite your best attempts to infer otherwise. I do not need you to clockwatch for me - I've been able to tell the time since I was five.
I LIKE getting ready for things in a rush/at the last minute - the adrenaline boost feels great; I have told you this before, and proven that I leave enough time for unforeseen problems, but because you don't understand it, you reject it, like everything else you 'can't' understand.
I am getting impatient with your constant grumpy/displeased attitude towards me, our children, life in general. Why the fuck can't you just chill out for once?
Life is to be enjoyed, savoured, appreciated and remembered with pleasure, it isn't a chore to be endured.
I am fed up with being judged as 'lacking' by you because I do things differently to you; I'm fed up with having to 'justify' myself time after time about the same goddamn fucking stuff.
Cut it out, or I will explode, and I refuse to be held responsible for the consequences.
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TapirBackRider · 26/05/2012 17:19
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