Our 3rd child was born in Jan and I made it known that I didnt want any visitors for 2 days after the birth firstly to get some much needed rest and secondly to allow my 20 mth old DS chance to get used to the new arrival. everyone has been fine about this except my DHs brother and his wife. I gave birth at 8am and he rang them to tell them the good news and he mentioned that I was coming home the same day and they wanted to come round that night! when he said I didnt want visitors for 2 days SIL got stroppy about it and hasnt been in touch since, and hasnt seen her new niece. This is 6 weeks ago and I am really annoyed that she took my request the way she did.
Sorry, just wanted to let off some steam.
was I being un reasonable... what are your opinions and what would you do if this happened to you.
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spangles · 15/02/2006 19:20
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