Dp is crap with money. This has caused tension between us before. He also has his own business which isn't doing well at present but to be fair to him this is as much what is going on for everyone in his trade as his own ability.
He owes 5k on credit card. He asked dfil to lend him the money to pay it off, with a plan to repay dfil whi dfil was happy with. He assurred me that this was what he would do with the money and dfil checked the plan with me before giving dp the cheque.
He has spent it on a car, which he claims is really cheap and he can easily sell at a profit.
I am absolutely furious with him and dfil is very upset. I told dfil as soon as I found out but dp does not yet, I think, know that dfil knows iyswim.
He states that at the point of asking dfil for the money and getting me to agree to the plan etc he didn't know about the car.
I feel that I can't trust him at all.
The issue isn't so much the money as the lies and I feel like he used me to lie to dfil. Really upset.
We are meant to be getting married later this year.
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Not sure if this should be a dealbreaker
ArthurandGeorge · 04/05/2012 20:07
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