I have built up a huge resentment towards dh over the last few years and am scared its going to end our relationship.
I also think he resents me - one of us cant have an hour to do something for ourselves without the other one making some sarcy comment and getting all hung up about it. For example, dh plays footie every saturday afternoon but I get all "well, i dont get time to have a hobby!" about it. I HATE BEING LIKE THIS!
I've turned into a nagging, miserable old hag of a wife since becoming a mum and i cant get out of the habit now!
I had a lie in this morning (am 27 weeks pregnant btw!) and when got up at 9.00am dh was all grumpy like he'd had to look after dd for a whole week on his own or something! Then i get all pissed off cos i think i deserve one lie in a week with being pregnant and working and having a 3yr old to look after and so the cycle continues.
Any advice (other than for both of us to grow up) on how I can turn things around before we end up hating each other?
TIA
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Can someone please tell me how to let go of this resentment before it kills my marriage?
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Mandymoo · 05/02/2006 12:14
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