My husband and I are seperated - I left him and took our 3 DC with me due to the fact that I had caught him contacting another woman and, after 2 known affairs decided i couldn't take it anymore.
However, there has been alot of emotional mess over the last year where he has bed hopped from me to another person and then lied all about it. I was so angry when I found out that he'd been sleeping with me and another woman - that I wrote a letter and told her everything. She then dumped him. I wrongly assumed that, as we were still sleeping together that maybe we could give our marriage another try - and I thought he thought that too - but it seems that was never his intention. What his intentin was I do not know as he will not tell me.
A week after his GF dumped him, he has a new GF and I found out last nite that he has already introduced our 3 DC to her under the pretence that she is his "friend" - he didn't even have the balls to actually be honest with them and tell them who she really is. They have only been together (apparently) 3 or 4 weeks (it has been 5 weeks since he last slept with me and i wrote the letter). They have been to her house and played with her children. Am I the only one who thinks its wrong to introduce your DC to a new partner so soon into a relationship? My thoughts are that they have been through enough over the past year that they do not need to be introduced so early on. Am I being unreasonable? he sees nothing wrong in what he has done and has told me that he will introduce his children to whoever he wants whenever he wants. But surely he should be honest about her to them? Your thoughts please.......
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Is 3 wks into a new relationship too early to introfuce new GF to DC?
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kerbear · 22/03/2012 13:17
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