In the last four weeks, my MIL has been diagnosed with cancer, my mother has grown increasingly depressed at the worsening state of my father who has Alzheimer's disease and I've had a worrying 20 week scan which has led to thoughts that I might look at the possibility of having a baby with special needs/an illness.
I feel a bit emotionally exhausted and drained tbh. It doesn't help that dh is away at the moment. Tonight I was looking forward to watching ER and switching off a bit.
A friend of mine called just before ER came on. She has had an on/off relationship with this guy for over 10 years now, and I've been there to discuss it again and again. Tonight she wanted to dissect another telephone conversation she had with him. I talked to her for about 20 mins, basically saying the same things I've said a million times before. Then I asked her if I could call her back tomorrow because I wanted to watch ER. She got all funny and is now upset with me...apparently she could have talked for another hour.
She didn't even ask me how I was, but that's by the by.
Is she right to be upset? Or am I right in thinking that she has some growing up to do? And how can I tell her nicely?
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Is there a nice way of saying "grow up FFS!" OR; Am I being unreasonable?
emkana · 30/01/2006 23:07
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