I want revenge!!
In brief - last night dh behaved like a big fat sh*t to me. He was aggressive (verbally), woke up the kids with his shouting and was basically just nasty to me. I know the reason - stress at his work but I don't accept that I should be treated like that even if he is stressed. We slept separately and he texted me 'sorry' at work today. Now he's on his way home. Do I forgive him after a long talk about what is not acceptable etc? (in which case I'm saying it's ok you can behave like that to me whenever you want and I'll be fine) or do I make him stew? It keeps happening and every time he promises it will be different and every time he gets stressed he does it again. How do I make this time the last? Please don't tell me to dump him. It hasn't got to that. I just want him to 'get it'.
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shimmy21 · 30/01/2006 17:25
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