I feel stupid posting this thats why i have name changed, if you realise who i am please do not out me i feel stupid as it is. :(
DH is not normally a facebook user, he does have an account but rarely users it.
Lately he is on it alot.
Last time he was using facebook alot i found out he was planning an affair with an (now) ex friend of mine.
He hasnt changed in his ways that i can tell of, the one thing i have noticed is though he is liking alot of someones pictures/statuses/posts etc i have her on facebook as well as him having her on facebook too (obviously)
He used to have frequent encounters with this lass before he met me.
She posted a status on today about how bored she was and how she was going to spoon her friend and DH replied with
'ooh videos lol'
Now that could mean 'hmm yeah your fit and i deffinatley would fuck you again' or it could be jokey type. I know DH is a flirt and can joke in times like that but im just hoping that he isn't getting to that point of where he wants abit of excitement from someone else.
Please tell me i am being stupid and its nothing to worry about.
I am still jealous and bitter about the last problems with what happened with my ex mate. We no longer talk and i threatened him to the point he knew i was serious. I would have kicked him out and i would have put her in hospital. I was working all the hours god sends after suffering bad PND and id come home from working 10 hours and he'd be on the laptop, dishes in the sink and hardly any cleaning done because he was talking to her all day. Yes i do feel that he could do it again, but id like to hope not.
So please tell me i am being a stupid cow.
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